Monday, June 29, 2009

Rethinking the God idea

I think of God differently.

I dont' think there's a God that puts us here. We are the same creator energy we attribute to God. God is neither external nor separate from us.

Therefore we actually chose these lives, cancer, hells, starvation, joys, abundance and all. We and our extraordinary spiritual advisor team drew up our life plan, tho not in intimate details, but in overall lesson plan we wished to experience and transmute in this life. Sometimes we get a little too confident in thinking we can bite off more than we can really chew. Our advisors try to guide us, but in our spirit form, we think more invincibly!!

So we get here and immediately forget who we really are (that enlightened spirit being) and think God did this to me. .. etc. So religions step in... and you know the rest.

Monday, June 15, 2009

GAME PLAYER
Computer games teach me things about myself. I play many varieties of the less complicated games. I see myself getting stressed on the more challenging levels, so I just quit. Even a time out or stop to get a cup of tea puts me in a different breathing space. I can feel my body relax and tension flow out of me.

I find myself angling my torso to direct a shot or tensing when the timer is about to run out. Then I remember. It’s only a game.

Just like life.

Then I realize how silly we are to give so much tension to the game of life. I get so frustrated at some of the more difficult game levels. I think why can’t they make this achievable? Why is this so bloody hard? And then I remember. It’s only a game. I can stop any time I want.

It used to be that I’d admonish myself as being a quitter, not stepping up to the challenge. What useless, self worth rot! It’s only a game for god’s sake!

So now I play a whole game and get to the really difficult level, the last level and I become “She Who Starts Over”. I am no longer a quitter. I have stepped up to the challenge of allowing an easy life. It feels so much better.

I have been there, done that, got the t-shirt and had it repossessed too! I don’t need to prove myself anymore. I know I can face and overcome tall buildings and bankers. I can start over. God, what a relief!

Sunday, June 14, 2009

HAWAIIAN HEALING: HERE NOW FREE

Maybe you’ve heard of Ho’oponopono, the ancient Hawaiian Huna healing method.
Since human consciousness is so much higher than it was even ten years ago, we are able to align more with this simple, yet powerful way of healing.





WE ARE ALL ONE
Remembering we are all One is the key to Ho’oponopono. If you think of a hologram and how a single particle of it contains the whole of it, then you will see this concept clearly. Each of us is a particle of the entire hologram of the universe, with an emphasis on humanity in this dimension. So we thus have every single aspect of consciousness of everyone and everything within us. Though one particular aspect such as insanity or bliss may be completely unexpressed in you, it is still there, as a part of the entire hologram.

WHAT NOT TO DO
Recently a client learned Ho’oponopono and in a follow up session he said “I keep doing Ho’oponopono but I am having real difficulty forgiving my parents.” I replied “Tell me what you are saying.” “My prayer is to forgive my parents.” he replied. It was difficult to forgive his parents. He could benefit from doing it differently. Instead of asking looking to them for forgiveness his request is better served to ask for release of his own judgments and release from whatever it is within him that caused or created that situation with his parents. Nothing here is outside of you. That is the key. Do not seek forgiveness from others. The forgiveness you ask for is as a part of the whole, knowing that everything, including that situation with the parents, is all just a part of you, inside you, or perhaps you are inside it!

IT’S NOT OUTSIDE YOU
Again, that hologram concept: whatever appears to be outside of you is merely an aspect of the hologram that is now manifest in front of you. Thus it is appearing in your reality in some form, e.g. humiliation by his parents. It has shown up on your plate in this now to help release it from all of consciousness. This way you own your part in creation and in being a part of the ‘whologram’.

HUNDREDTH MONKEY
By raising consciousness in these seemingly infinitesimal shifts, we raise all the consciousness of the Universes. Yes, we ARE that powerful. This is the key reason this planet is the focus of Universal attention right now. Our small shifts have created a critical mass of change or the hundredth monkey concept if you like. We are at the threshold of shift. The universe knows it and stands in awe at the choices we’ve made to succeed this time. It’s done in little steps, one Ho’oponopono prayer at a time.

APPLYING HO’OPONOPONO
Currently I have created the experience of something that resembles poison ivy. Firstly I prefer not to give names to imbalances such as I have manifested. I prefer to leave it nameless and thus less focused and powerful, for names give form and energy to people and things. See http://www.dollymae.com/Whatisnameology.html So this experience I have created is perfect to work on with Ho’oponopono. Really everything is. It is up for me, on my plate, to add to the transmutation in all consciousness of such an experience.









THE PRAYER
So I do two things: First, my Ho’oponopono prayer. It goes like this;
“Creator, Father Mother God Goddess within.
Please remove whatever it is that has created this situation.
I am truly sorry and I ask forgiveness.
I thank you and I love you.”
(The short version is: “I’m sorry. I love you.”

WHAT REALLY HAPPENS
It’s pretty simple, but amazingly multidimensional.
Ho’oponopono is really all about self, nothing is outside of me.
Notice we are addressing ourselves as the god/goddess energy within the whole.
We are the source of power and bringing it to a focus in this moment and this situation.
We ask simply for removal. Notice this is not death, war or killing of a situation. We are bringing something back into balance with this prayer by simple transmutation. We are removing the energy of a situation and that energy will be transmuted to a different form; perhaps newly healed skin or an infinite number of other possibilities. Energy never dies, it simply changes.

LOVING A THING TO DEATH
Secondly, I love the energy of this manifestation. Remember, anything out of balance is that way because it is lacking love. Love is the great equalizer, healer, balancer and aligner. So I simply love it to death. Loving a thing to death, meaning, back into balance which simply transmutes or changes its form. So I love its energy back into harmony. Loving such a thing as this which resembles poison ivy does not make it stronger. It makes balance stronger. I am simply applying the ingredient of Love which is lacking in the disharmony called poison ivy. Once applied, harmony begins to be restored and the manifestation will be released into a new energy form.

CONTROL OF THE ILLUSION
All we see is illusion anyway. Like our dreams, but we are awake. So dream it into something else. Here is where your subconscious, with you in control, makes the huge difference on our planet as we shift into the next dimension. We raise vibrations by acknowledging the illusion of the experience.

JUST A CONVERSATION
As Lightworkers, when we talk with people, in an acknowledged counseling capacity or in simple conversation, our job is to hold the consciousness of a person’s wholeness and non-separation. Our job is to do that work within ourselves. For in doing it within the self, you have done it in consciousness. Holding that higher vibration is like a magnet attracting others to the light. Their spirit remembers their wholeness and is desirous of rushing forward into that wholeness vibration. That is where the healing is done…. Within YOU. You hold the space for remembering we are all One and not separate.

When you make a distinction between 'this I am' and 'that I am not’ you have forgotten Oneness.

ADJUSTING THE STORY LINE
So as we acknowledge all of consciousness is within each of us and it is all a part of the whole, we serve the highest consciousness of Oneness. All is One and all is now. Whatever the story line of any conversation: drama, comedy, pain, loss, anger, hatred or grief, our knowing that it is still all part of the Oneness allows us to adjust the story line to see it from its higher perspective: the macrocosm of consciousness. It reminds of to see the bigger picture. In other words, we don’t get lost in the microcosm or small, human view, of the physical story that wishes to validate separatism and hierarchy. Instead, like listening to a dream and interpreting it, we must know the dream images are metaphors for a larger understanding of the macrocosm.

HO’OPONOPONO APPLIED
Recently my sister’s job involved changing parking slots for residents at a large complex. One man was terribly upset and raged and screamed at my sister for the change. She immediately did ho’oponopono work on the situation. Within an hour the man returned and humbly apologized saying “I don’t know what came over me. I’m so sorry. Please accept my apologies.”

In another situation, an upset client called because of a fearful diagnosis by her naturopath. We did ho’oponopono work on the situation. Two days later her naturopath called and there was no problem now.

Ho’oponopono releases the situation from consciousness. Since everything is done within us, it happens for all of consciousness.
Simple and powerful. Try it.

Joe Vitale on the left who wrote an excellent book on Ho'oponopono "Zero Limits " and Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len who was the Doctor who cured a whole ward of criminally insane in Honolulu using Ho'oponopono. For the whole story visit http://educate-yourself.org/zsl/hooponopono25jul06.shtml

Friday, May 1, 2009

A Wedding at the Flower Show



At the Flower and Garden show this year I performed a wedding for my very good friends. They have been together 37 years. Due to government red tape and health, social security, etc issues, they finally decided to get married.

She is a fabulous artist and jeweler and has had a booth at the Flower and Garden Show for all 21 years of its existence. They wanted to be married on the anniversary of the day they met, but it was always during this show.

So they woke up 5 days before the event and said "Let's get married during the show, but only if Dolly can do the wedding then." I could! Everything in the universe conspired to creating its happening. NOTHING was planned.

No Bridezilla for my friend! Just go with the flow. And flow it did.

All the wedding vows were from inspiration at nite as I'd try to sleep. I'd mentally download (channel) a phrase and was compelled to write it down. Then I'd try to sleep... drifting softly another phrase would appear. And so it went til a lovely ceremony was framed. See vows below.

A couple at the same event, long time friends, aided and abetted. We walked around the show and found a delicious Balinese garden setting above. The owners of that beautiful space were deleriously happy we'd chosen them for the impromptu event.

They provided lovely fresh gardenia boutonnières for the couple and a stunning enormous spray of huge orchids for the brides bouquet! The setting alone was priceless, but those flowers were amazing... and orchids all over the 'set' too.

The groom does not own a suit. Many years ago when they first got together, the bride threw away his three suits.. they are hippies at heart! Raised in Hawaii, they still retain that Aloha spirit. Casual and authentic defines these two.


The abetting friend had aquired a tuxedo!! Yes, a tux. He guessed at the size, and it was pretty close, jsut a tad large. He spirited away the groom at the last minute, sprang the tux on him and got him dressed. In all the last minute haste, no one had remembered shirt studs! Again, the universe in the flow provided and in a most unusual way. The bride, artist that she is, makes these stunning little earings, single tiny flowers in colored metal. We swiped some for the studs!

You should have seen the look on her face as we walked to the Balinese setting and the groom was walking toward her. If her jaw had dropped any lower, we'd have had to call 911!!! She had never actually seen him in a suit!

We 'planned' the event for immediately after the show closed on day 2 of the several day event. There was concern that the guards would prevent our staying. Hanging out in the flow of life revealed NO guards anywhere and a wonderful event.

In simple ceremonies I ask the bride and groom to gather one element from each Earth, Air, Water and Fire. Because she is a metalworker, we added the Chinese element of Metal!

Earth was dirt from Whidbey Island, their home. Fire was a homemade beeswax candle. Water was a handblown glass piece that was watery in expression. Air was the scented air of the Flower show. The Metal was a lovely crystal and metal wand the bride had made.

The scene was set.

No one had thought of video cameras, tho one friend did have a camera, neither bride nor groom had planned for one. Voila! 2 video cameras show up and 2 others with great digital cameras took pix. There was an abundance of photo opportunities!




So here is that divinely inspired wedding from start to finish an example of staying in the flow.
Here are the vows without the names.

February 19th, 2009
Good Friends and Honored Guests,

We are gathered here in the Light of the God /Goddess I AM to proclaim the long standing love between you ****and you ****. Your love has already weathered many changes for better and for worse that come with life’s constant move forward.

You have demonstrated commitment and understanding of love. You have become Love and your two spirits have grown intertwined. They are an example for others to witness love in action. You have shown your love is an opportunity for growth; not an obligation. Together you lift your lives to their highest potential.

This ceremony is an outward expression of your deep and everlasting love for each other.

You have brought the elements of the universe here as symbols of your union with each other and with the universe as a whole.

Earth is represented by Whidbey Island soil, your home.
Air is the sacred air of this lovely garden setting.
Water is symbolized by the watery hand blown glass vessel and the water fountain in this courtyard.
Fire burns in the candle before us, beeswax from an Island beekeeper.
Metal is artfully expressed in this magical sword, combining the feminine and the masculine.
Wood is represented in the handcrafted wooden bowl holding the earth.
Thus the universe is represented in these well chosen pieces.

Are you, *****, willing to continue your pursuit, expression and demonstration of unconditional love for yourself and ******? (“I AM”)

Are you *******, willing to continue your pursuit, expression and demonstration of unconditional love for yourself and ******? (“I AM”)

May the blessings of God be upon you. May Hir peace abide with you. May god’s love illuminate your hearts; now and forever more.

By the Light of the God I AM I now pronounce you Lover and Beloved.

I have the honor of introducing Mr. and Mrs. ******************.

Dolly Mae, Minister, ULC











Saturday, March 7, 2009

Programming Happiness

I was 40 years old and sat weeping, something I’d always tried to avoid. Why was this happening to me? I thought I was a decent, honest person. I couldn’t figure it out.

I was in the middle of a twenty five million dollar bankruptcy splashed all over the front pages of the newspaper. Over and over I asked myself what I had done wrong and why such public humiliation. I was a problem solver but I couldn’t solve a crackdown on investors, a bank failure and a law change all at once. But my story is just history now with the musty details on my website.

I tell you these things because many of you are facing similar situations. You might not have as many zeros after the twenty five, but the pain feels exactly the same. You are still a good person. You are still decent and caring. If you are spending your feelings on fear and failure, it is a luxury you cannot afford.

Attitude
Your attitude is what will change everything for you. Your situation is a door opening as much as it is a door closing. An opportunity is before you as you step into the unknown. That’s the whole point; it’s unknown, so embrace it instead of fearing it. You have become a traveler in a foreign land. You can be scared of your new experience or you can enjoy the sheer excitement of travel.

After her husband was laid off, my good friend wrote “Wahoo! A vacation!” Now that’s attitude! Such outlook will bring a speedy and happy resolution. She is creating her next now of joy by being in joy in this now.

Be calm. Be at peace. Breathe. Know you are so much more than this experience. It will pass. Know you can create the life you truly desire by filling your thoughts and heart with love and gratitude.

Shifting Fear
Gratitude is much undervalued. It is the surest and quickest way to shift your sadness and pain. In truth there is much to be grateful for: health, freedom, potential, options and a chance to start over. Remember when you finished school and the whole world awaited you? It still does! Recapture that feeling. Perhaps you’ve taken a path that had you boxed in, debt-ridden or drowning in responsibility. The loss is difficult, but you’re finally free again! You have created another chance. You are birthing a new you.

Reviving Joy
Even if you’ve never been in your crisis situation before, fear is only one option. If you’re facing bankruptcy, losing your home or been diagnosed with cancer, know happiness is still accessible and alive inside you. Choose it as your focus. It is a bottomless well forgotten for the moment. You can revive this well of happiness with tears and laughter. Let your emotions flow.

Tears are the diamonds of the universe. Spirits from all dimensions watch in awe when we cry, for they have not the ability to express such deep love. Your tears of sadness and pain are pure, liquid gems pouring forth deep, unstoppable love from within. You are the source of this endless and eternal well. You are love; and love is your true nature. There will be a payoff.

The Payoff
Your biggest payoff will occur when you stop asking why this is happening to you and begin asking how you created it. Knowing how you created it empowers you giving you the tools to create what you prefer. Nothing is ever being done to you, although it feels like it. In truth, it is all being done for you. There is a secret formula you can use that works every time to shift your perspective.

The Secret
How to program happiness step by step.
1.Listen to your thoughts. Ask if these are the ones you want to be thinking.
2.Don’t judge them. Judgment stops the flow.
3.Choose memories that recall delicious thoughts of abundance, joy, love or health.
4.Feel the feelings associated with those memories. This is the important part.
5.Stay in those feelings for 17 seconds and the magnetic field emanating from you shifts.
6.Stay in those feelings for more than 17 seconds and you draw more of those same feeling to you in new situations, people and circumstances.

Congratulations! You have made the shift. Miracles will begin to happen because you are now consciously programming your life.

Homework
This secret formula puts you back in control. Practice feeling the feelings you prefer for only two minutes every hour and watch how your life changes. It’s the most rewarding homework you’ll ever do. You’re already feeding emotions unconsciously. If you continue feeling depressed or victimized, you will create more of it. Choose empowerment by choosing your feelings.

Planetary Birth
The whole planet is moving through birth pains as we approach 2012. Together we are birthing something new, a higher consciousness we have only imagined. The excitement is powerful. The fear can be overwhelming. Change is simultaneously scary and exhilarating. The potential is no less than stupendous! Your choice to love and embrace the coming unknown reverberates through the planet and out into the universe. It will change everything and help bring about the Golden Age of Consciousness.

Move beyond your perceived limitations by embracing your fears and then choosing the feeling you prefer. It will move you through your crisis. You are more, much more than you yet know. You are a powerful creator. You have universes within you. You are radiant and light filled. You are love.

Love and joy live within you. So do fear and sadness. The one you feed will determine your life and the planet’s. Step into your power. Ride the crisis through the new doorway and embrace your potential. Then hold the door open for those who will follow you and together we will change the universe.

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

The Power of Names

This is from a four year old:
'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'
Billy - age 4

Ancient peoples knew names held power through their sacred and secret vibrations. The essence was and is held in the vowels. Many ancient civilizations did not write the vowels. They were too powerful. They held the secrets to a person's life directions and soul. They still do.

Not only the vowels, but the placement of all the other letters in your name reflects your innermost attributes. Letters are made up of sounds. These individual tones and combinations of letters form a vibration that is a soul picture of you. That's why the ancients had secret names and hid the vowels. They didn't want to give their power away by revealing their essence in saying their name.

In my book "If You Have a Name You Need This Book", some of the teaching is based on numerology, the hidden messages in number values of each letter. Most however is about letter placements and the sounds and vibrations each letter makes. I call this study Nameology. http://www.dollymae.com/Whatisnameology.html

We have heard spoken of the Celestial Choirs with their Angelic sounds. Angelic names are impossible for us to speak for they are of such a high vibration that we can only begin to experience their tones and quality, but are unable to reproduce it. Those tones and vibrations reveal the celestial qualities of each angelic energy. They are a higher overtone of our alphabet, using similar patterns of sound and vibration. Our sounds are watered down by comparison.

My book about Nameology is a sort of decoder so you can figure out what your name means, or anyone elses too.

I liked this little four year old's understanding of the power of names. It made me see yet again that children are brilliant and know much more than we credit them for.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

A Breath of Fresh Air

This week someone asked me what I see for 2009. There will be scattered pockets of joy and fear, abundance and poverty. This is the very real time of creating our own experiences based on staying conscious and open.

A dear friend’s husband was just laid off. She said “Wahoo! A vacation!!!” Now THAT’s attitude! It will bring another excellent job soon.

Recently I had a conversation about a mutual friend. Just by talking about things, I could see a custody battle and lawsuit coming up, an increase in income and many other surprises. Months later it all turned out to be true and our mutual friend now wishes he’d had a conversation with me too. Why? Because he wished he’d been prepared for what was coming.

The most personal information comes when you and I have just such a conversation. Mental pictures freely download into my consciousness with insights into the twists and turns of events to come. Nuances are shown to me in visions and metaphoric images.

Our own minds play hide and seek with information we are too afraid to look at. Not that it will be bad, we’re just afraid so we hide from knowing.
 
With me, you’ll get a reading from someone who is not afraid to look and who receives insights that help get you unstuck and prepared.
 
It’s like opening a window for fresh air. This new year and these amazing times of change are exciting.

Schedule your breath of fresh air and we’ll have a cup of tea too. We can talk over the phone or in my office. Fresh air is very healing.


I look forward to our heart to heart conversation with insights.

dolly@dollymae.com
206.992.2074
or toll free 877.246.9569